You are holding a cup of coffee when someone comes along and bumps into you or shakes your arm, making you spill your coffee everywhere.Why did you spill the coffee?
“Well because someone bumped into me, of course!” Wrong answer…
You spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your cup.
Had there been tea in the cup, you would have spilled tea.Whatever is inside the cup, is what will spill out.Therefore, when life comes along and shakes you (which WILL happen), whatever is inside you will come out. It’s easy to fake it, until you get rattled.So we have to ask ourselves… “what’s in my cup?”
When life gets tough, what spills over?
Joy, gratefulness, peace and humility?
Or anger, bitterness, harsh words and reactions?
The ingredients of life are sacrosanct and are already there and given to all of us as they are… Everything needed to make life happy. The recipe, however, is yours. How you choose to add these ingredients of life will determine the life you dish out for yourself!
Each one of us gets to make our own dish of life irrespective of circumstances. Choose and mix these well, never blame anyone else for anything and You will find the perfect life dish that will make you hungry for Life.
“All your frustrations in life are because of unrealistic expectations…” When we love and serve a relationship with goodness and without expectations, The life compensates you in a manner which is beyond all logic and imagination!
The best way to get relationships right is by focusing on what you can give and not on what you can receive. Be as good to all as you can be and Go On Going On, the world will do a world of good to you in return.